Lambeth and Egg

One object that holds a lot of beauty if an egg. This egg has been painted on with flowers and other things and it came from my Nanny’s (grandma’s) house. That was the last thing I took of my Nanny’s to remember her by when she passed. I had always seen it in the house, and it was going to be left on the entertainment center when we were moving all of her things out of the house. While the egg might not be painted perfectly and it might have a chip or two, I feel the strongest connection to it. It didn’t have to be perfect because it is merely a token that I keep to remember her by.

I feel that my egg can relate to Lambeth’s story because just as her story involves beauty in asymmetry and imperfection, mine does too. The one line that struck me from the text was the line “there is beauty in this change, the grace and balance found in asymmetry” (Lambeth, Three-Legged Dog). The egg I had might not have been in perfect condition, I still find the beauty in what it represents.

Friendly Reality Check: We’re All Human

     Something that I picked up fairly recently in my life is writing in a notebook, something that contains my late night venting sessions, my college to do lists, and my anxious thoughts that play on a constant loop in my head. Everyone who has a notebook or journal understands that they are in no way, shape, or form, perfect. My notebook has scribbles where I’ve misspelled words, I’ve got arrows all over the pages where I’ve tried to connect my thoughts, I have random lists in between heartfelt journal entries, and sometimes I’m writing so fast that my handwriting changes completely. It’s messy and sometimes unorganized but I find beauty in the way that I let my thoughts take over the pages. If anything, I think it shows how human I truly am.

     Reading Lambeth’s piece was really eye opening in the sense that it made me realize certain things about society as a whole and even myself. When Lambeth states that, “all creatures that persist are whole”, it actually kind of took me by surprise and made me smile. It’s easy for people to feel broken and messy and incomplete for the flaws that they have or the way that they are. Realizing and coming to terms with the fact that we are human and imperfect is surprisingly really reassuring and calming. If you keep going and don’t look back, you’re on the right track. We’re all whole – no matter the disability, mental illness, trauma, or backstories that might have shaped us into who we are today. Society likes to make us feel as though we need to be searching for more and as though we should feel broken for what has happened to us, but Lambeth reassures us that not a single one of us is “incomplete”.

 

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